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youtube link by Alain de Botton, Creator of The School of Life and narrator on the majority of our videos, talking at a Google event in London in 2017. Reasons why love is tricky: It’s difficult to tell someone we need him/her We are reluctant to reveal our vulnerabilities Two behavioral patterns for people when he/she has to be vulnerable: Anxious attach - start to get strict/mean instead of asking “do you still care about me”. Avoidant - try to hide our needs to another person. ...